An Invitation for Some Quiet Relief

Flowers (4)

Perhaps you’ve noticed that things look a little different over here? That’s because I recently completed a full re-design of my website and added some things that will make it more fun and user friendly for all of you (like easier email signup – which you’ll find at the bottom of the page. I may have happy danced over that one). If you’ve been around for a while, you won’t see a big change in content. Rather, I simply updated the look of my website to make my purpose as a blogger more obvious to new readers. This is my third […]

Continue Reading

What Happens When We Face Our Fears

Day 1 - Travel (6)

Four weeks ago today, I sat on the floor of an airport terminal, staring out the window and clutching my rosary. Outside, a Boeing 777 – painted like a scene from Lord of the Rings – waited for us to board. We were preparing to make the flight from LAX to Auckland, twelve hours over nothing but ocean. I hate to fly. Ask anyone who’s flown with me. I’m a nightmare of a seat mate. Heart palpitations during takeoff, panic attacks at the first sign of turbulence. It’s ugly. I could get into the nitty-gritty details of the origin of my […]

Continue Reading

Come to New Zealand with Me!

Day 6 - Totara North (2)

I’m just popping in today to tell you what’s been going on behind the scenes around here… and to say that I’m leaving for New Zealand in T-minus two weeks and I want you to come along! But first things first. March just might be my favorite month of the year. Sure, I could do without the rain and it’s still a bit cold for my liking, but the sun’s bedtime goes back a whole hour and that’s all I really need. Now, I don’t want to get ahead of myself but it appears that as the winter tide went out, it […]

Continue Reading

Moms Need a Village Too

Better Together 1

I picked up the phone to tell her that life has me in a choke hold again this week, and by the way, how was your vacation? She tells me how they missed their return flight only to make it home two days later with a kid in the throes of a nasty ear infection. Then I tell her I’m parked outside Walgreens with two sets of infected ears asleep in my backseat and I’m so tired I could lean my seat back and join them if that amoxicillin isn’t bottled in the next five minutes. “Oh, the joys of motherhood.” […]

Continue Reading

When Life is Overwhelming


Yesterday afternoon I put Allie down for a nap and came out to the kitchen to stare at my calendar and panic for a few minutes. I have a lot going on right now, you guys, and it’s starting to make my head spin. While most of it is fun and exciting, I won’t even pretend that things aren’t also hard and daunting, especially for a high-strung worry wart like me. Just to give you a bit of context, this is the short version of what’s going on my life right now: I’m hiring a professional tech person to revamp my website so I […]

Continue Reading

One Way to Beat the Winter Slump When Nothing Else Helps


Hey there, fellow winter warrior. This time of year is pretty brutal, isn’t it? It’s cold. It’s dark. Our noses are stuffed up; the heating bills keep rolling in; and our kids are behaving like caged animals. If you follow me on Instagram, then you know what kind of morning I had yesterday. And while a morning like that is never ideal, I imagine I wouldn’t have stressed about it on a sunny June day. I assume most people can relate to some amount of winter despair. But for those of us who’s emotional health and outlook on life are […]

Continue Reading

Some Things to Remember When We’re Tempted to Judge

There's more to the story 2

We walked into the library and made our way to the children’s room. Allie immediately went for the train set (she always does) while I found a safe place for my laptop case. I joined her on the floor and we started constructing an oval-shaped track. Another mom showed up with a preschool-aged boy and an infant sleeping in a stroller. (Until then we were the only ones in the children’s area, which is extremely rare). She parked her stroller, sat a table, and sent the little boy off to play. A few minutes later, I heard him struggling behind […]

Continue Reading

5 Reasons You’re Not Keeping Your New Year’s Resolution and One Thing to Try Instead


I already ditched my New Year’s resolution. I don’t know who I was kidding. Originally, I decided that I would get up early at least three mornings a week and go for a jog. It sounded like a good idea at first. Plus, my kids are finally sleeping through the night pretty consistently and I’m running out of excuses for not working out. Still, before I even set my alarm on the first Monday of the New Year, I knew I wasn’t going to get up. After many years of failed resolutions, I started wondering what I was doing wrong. Seriously, […]

Continue Reading

Hope for Years with Rocky Endings

I was laying on the bathroom floor in my in-laws’ basement when Matt called to tell me there was at least three inches of water in ours. We had gone to his parents’ house the day before to wait out the winter storm after two trees fell in our front yard. Uprooted from the weight of the ice, their side-by-side root systems were entangled with one another and they ripped down the power lines to our house. Corn Belt said it could be hours, days even, before power was restored to every customer. So we packed up the kids and […]

Continue Reading

The Story of My Child’s Recurring Fevers

They tell me one of the best things I can do is limit the stress level in our home, and I think surely the Lord gave her the wrong mama. Because Stress is my middle name, and I don’t know if I’ll ever master another way of life. Every time she comes to me with an aching head and a rising temp, I wonder if this is at least partly my doing. Have I been too impatient? Did I expect too much? Did I hurry her along too often? And although deep down I know this isn’t my fault, I […]

Continue Reading
1 2 3 9